PillowTalk | Our Polyamory Story | Part 2 | South African Queer Couple πŸ³οΈβ€πŸŒˆ #roadto100subbies


Summary

Fabi and Lelo share their journey in a polyamorous triad, starting with introducing Bobby into their relationship due to Fabi's feelings. The relationship initially flourishes but faces challenges with external perceptions and communication issues. Ultimately, they transition to a monogamous relationship after realizing the importance of honesty and clear communication, leading to a happier dynamic between the couple.


Introduction to Polyamorous Relationship

Fabi and Lelo introduce their personal experience in a polyamorous triad, sharing how it started and their initial feelings for each other.

Disclosure of Feelings

Fabi discloses her feelings for Bobby to her partner after a month of developing emotions for Bobby.

Establishment of Triad Relationship

Fabi suggests bringing Bobby into the relationship, and after discussion, everyone agrees to the new dynamics of the relationship.

Initial Relationship Dynamics

The relationship starts positively, with everyone being together and enjoying shared activities.

Misconceptions and Changes

External perceptions view the relationship as purely sexual, leading to misunderstandings. Communication issues arise after about five months, leading to a reevaluation of the relationship structure.

Reevaluation of Relationship

Fabi calls a meeting to discuss honesty in their feelings within the relationship, leading to a decision that they would prefer Fabi as their common partner.

Transition to Monogamous Relationship

The relationship dynamics shift, with both partners deciding they only want to date Fabi individually, leading to the exit of the third party from the relationship.

Communication Breakdown

Communication issues escalate, with Fabi playing the role of mediator between the two partners, leading to a clearer understanding that the relationship structure needed to change.

Transformation of Relationship

The relationship evolves into a monogamous one, with the third party choosing to leave as it becomes evident that she no longer wants to be part of the dynamic.

Reasons for Relationship Transition

The breakdown of communication and lack of honesty contribute to the relationship's failure. The couple expresses their decision to never engage in a polyamorous relationship again.

Reflections on Relationship Evolution

The couple discusses the initial reasons for entering a polyamorous relationship, the benefits of openness and honesty, and the current happiness and improvement in their monogamous relationship.

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